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Part 3:Relationships

Most times the term 'relationship' is associated with dating; (layman terms 'going out') not that its not part of the definition.- A sexual or romantic involvement.
Relationship can mean being related by blood or a way in which two or more people behave and are involved with each other.

I guess my focus on this post is friendship (which can lead to romantic involvement, how many people aren't 'friends' and are 'dating?'. My opinion is that the starting point is friendship. I believe that relationships which start out with friendships are the best and actually last longer. (not some mediocre type of friendship oh biko. lol)

Some people are in very toxic relationships; Tyrese type of situation 'every time I try to leave something keeps pulling me back' hehe
Proverbs 4:23 according to the Message says "keep vigilant watch over your heart; that's where life starts" simply says don't just let anyone mess with your emotions; be they platonic or romantic

Some have actually tried to get out, and like Nathaniel sang 'its not by power or by might'. Some of them might even be under a spell and not even know. 

I remember some time ago I was "heart broken" lol, I was very sad, I even think that was my Gothic/emo phase *covers face*. Anyways I remember praying one afternoon, (like I was talking to my friend) and I said "I'm tired of feeling this way, please just take away my hurt Lord Jesus", to be honest I would be lying if I said immediately I felt lighter lol, it took a while (probably like 3 weeks). Like the saying "time heals" I added "Jesus heals" = Jesus and Time Heals. 

If you are honest with yourself, you'll know when you are in a toxic relationship. Just take that relationship to God. Whether its a good or toxic relationship He's interested.
God bless you.

With love, theInspiredCutiee 

See you next Tuesday for the final part. 
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