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Rant!

I don't understand the type of men being bred today.

This morning I entered a 'keke napep' or tricycle and it takes four people (in Lagos, because the extra cash is important, I don't know about other parts of the country though) it was some woman and I waiting for two more people. And luckily two people came, a school girl and a young man. And you know what happened? This 'agbaya' of a man went to take the seat at the back and the young girl said she couldn't seat in front. The driver now had to beg the man to please kindly seat in front.
To be honest if I had known he was going to beg him I would have gone to sit there myself. *hiss*

Some 30 minutes later, in another bus, the lady at the last row of the bus had reached her destination, the man who sat closest to the door refused to open the door, said the driver (there wasn't any conductor) should do it. Imagine?? Wasting everyone's time!

Not that I support women being treated as helpless beings, in fact I believe in girl power. But what happened to the term 'gentlemen'?? Have we decided to bred a generation which literally states 'what a man can do a woman can do better?' So hence men should sit back, cross their legs and observe??? Naah! Its so not right!!
But what do I know? I'll just be here sipping my tea..

With love, theInspiredCutiee 😘

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