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Society and one of its ills



This post started off as a rant, but then I decided why just rant? Critic the ill, but also share lessons you’ve amassed overtime. Remember, this month is the month of purpose, why rant and not have a purpose?

I usually say, ‘everyone has an opinion, all it takes to be swayed to the other side – is good argument. Daz all!

I can start a movement on ‘School should be optional, because these days an individual can ‘’blow’’ without the four walls of a classroom’, yes I’ll have followers, but then TeamEducationForAll would rise and protest with their POV, and then the debate would begin. *yawn* it is an endless vicious cycle.

Today’s rant is all about Single. Singleness. Single persons. Single not in a relationship.

Who dictates social media? People! Societies are made of people. It is funny that social media has a way of dragging one down ehn, but then again, its social media, we still need her (yes, social media is female), ironically I read three different articles that day, three! All highlighting this issue of singleness. What a wawu! 


That’s why I was angry, but then again, perhaps my phone is actually smart because once I read the first article, it suggested the next, then the next. So, lets blame this rant on my phone. Lol.

The first was BankyW'sComebackToAFan who asked ‘Where is your ring?’ (okay, yes, this individual was obviously being nosey and perhaps silly, but come on, that comeback was unnecessary) he responded with ‘where is your husband?’ and everyone began to cheer him. *ayam confused*

The next article was from BusinessInsiderByPulse, I was shook; well, it is for enlightenment, (at least now I know what happens in Denmark when you are 25 and unmarried) but people are deep sha.

The third was from PunchNG, okay, that one was a tad hilarious because I was like ‘hian oh! Odikwa very serious for this single stigma’.


On a more serious note, society has termed the single phase ‘negative’. Which is why I am going to begin a series on the topic. So, yeah, watch this space!



 With love,
TheInspiredCutiee 😘

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