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The SS 4



If you’ve been following these series, you know they started off as a rant, but I decided to be inspiring, (as usual, hehe). If you haven’t (where have you been!) – you can read the Kick Off, Part 1, Part 2, Part 3.

I concluded part 3 saying watch out for myth 3… (still watch out!)

‘I thrive on purpose’, ‘I exist because of purpose’, so what then are the things I should be conscious of during this phase? Literally what lessons should I gather from my singleness?

This requires a critical look at Genesis 2: 8-17:

1.      Place: God has a purpose for every place He puts me, He wants me to see, learn something before He can show me the next step. For example; He placed me in my family for a reason. Ironically many (myself inclusive) place ourselves and source for a person or people to validate this place we’ve placed ourselves. Even more sadly, many (myself inclusive) fight the place God has placed us.

2.     Purpose: God has a purpose for everything He does, He is a God of order, He doesn’t do things on a whim. I should ask, why am I here? If I am here and its uncomfortable, then it is for my growth, because He has a purpose for everything.

3.     Provision: God is all sufficient, He has it all, but He won’t fund any idea or plan that is not HIS.  If I am in the place He placed me, If I am doing His purpose, then the provision would come. I don’t even have to struggle for it, as long as it is His will, He would come through.

4.     Identity: God has made me in His image, I know this because of His word; any definition of who I am outside His word is a false identity. Regardless of what labels people give, as long as it is outside His word, it is not for me, it doesn’t define me, it is fake. Ironically, the enemy is scared when I find and know my identity in Christ because then He cannot label or impress a fake identity on my person.

I’ll conclude these series in the next part. I promise.




With love,
TheInspiredCutiee 😘 

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