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These series started off as a rant, but I decided to be inspiring, (as usual, hehe), you can read the Kick Off post.

Society has marked and termed the single phase as negative, (but then again, that’s what happens when you live in a fallen world) our culture has blinded many, and people are damaged when they don’t have proper aim.

But, reality check; this phase, this single phase is the most important phase of your life, you are literally not responsible for anyone but yourself. Culture is a moving target; don’t set your relationship at culture.

Society makes you think – you need someone to make you better. If you are not enough with who you are as a single person; you won’t be satisfied in a relationship. Then again, if God is not enough, you are not enough, no person would ever be.

Reality check; God wants you to excel in your relationships, His rules are not for Him, but for you! He wants you alone first – single phase before the ‘person’ or in popular terms; ‘the one’ comes. He wants to be one with you first before the one!

Society says #RelationshipGoals #PicturePerfect - if your couple picture isn’t lit enough; you don’t have couple goals. We are so fazed and blindsided by the outer appearance of what perfect relationships should look like, if you don’t appear on the gram with numerous likes or BellaNaija, you haven’t arrived? Really?

Reality check again; Man looks at the outer appearance, God doesn’t. He wants to give you a vision and show you your purpose in relationships, the best time to grab this - is when you are single.

But hey, you may say; ‘so what if I am already in it without purpose’? ‘Does this mean I can’t be redeemed’ or have a good relationship’ Of course there is hope and mercy for us. God’s love and mercy is never-ending. But why wait till you are in it to grasp the truth?



Watch out for part 2!



With love,
TheInspiredCutiee 😘 
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